Now I Know What A Ghost Is. Unfinished Business, That’s What!

I don’t know who said it, it’s not mine I heard it on T.V. But what a gem it sure turned out to be. Unfinished business is all I have left. I pissed what chance at a life I had away worried about it. Now it seems, unfinished business is going to finish me. Is it the finish line closing in on me or does the sign just say finished. Eyes are blurry from the stress, lack of sleep and the things you do in between to try and put your mind at ease. Easier said than done, these battle scars don’t ever go away. They serve as a constant reminder day in and day out of what you did and what you could of done. That’s life isn’t it? Life is about what you do or don’t do and the didn’t do’s are starting to pile up at 43. The unfinished business that in a week will come knocking at your door once again still hasn’t been dealt with. It will come as it has in the past in the form of ghosts like it always does and the same damn thing will happen. All that time you had until you didn’t, people dying from a disease we can’t stop, people denying it exists and with all the bullshit out there, I honestly don’t know who to believe. In the end, I’ve found this. The show will go on with or without you. Believe in yourself, it’s the only thing for sure you can ever know to be true. People lie on you, people lie with you, watch the company you keep. Some you thought would take this ride with your forever, are only there for a chapter. Know when that chapter is completed, it sucks and it hurts. We don’t want them to go sometimes, but what sucks worse is wasting your time on something that is done. Creating unfinished business, some of us don’t have that time. Some of us won’t get 80, some of us won’t get tomorrow, so fucking live it. Figure Covid out, figure your shit out, quit bitching about the right and left and this and that and Karen and snowflakes, in the end that shit won’t matter. What matters is spending as much time as you can with your 4 year old daughter before she is 14 and more interested in her friends than you. Taking that trip, seeing gramma, some people are saying goodbye to their grandparents through windows. Handle you business, take care of your business and let the show go on with you. Living on the sidelines with unfinished business only works so long. At some point those ghosts you never put to bed will creep up at the worst possible time…..

But Sometimes Those Answers Are Found In Our Darkest Moments!

We either get found out, or we figure it out! Sometimes facing it isn’t everything we hoped it would be. Sometimes facing it makes it worse, sometimes facing it makes you face yourself. All the darkness and the time wasted. All the things you did that you thought you would have a chance to make right, I was younger then. I thought I had time, I thought it would all figure itself out until I got figured out. And now what I can’t figure out is what any of us are doing. These Divided States of America are good for no one. Black hates white and right back at ya. Defund the police, more police it’s anarchy. Trump is the Devil, Biden sniffs kids and Harris said she believed Biden’s accuser! Pence thinks that you can really shock the gay out of people, talk about darkest moments. These are the choices you came up with America. I have no faith anymore in WE the people, this whole thing is a joke. A shit show of monumental proportions, less a life and more a comedy of errors. A pandemic that wether you believe is real or not, the havoc it has left in its wake is insane. Saying goodbye to loved ones through glass windows, how awful must that be? Every dog I have had to make the worst decision of my life for at the end of theirs. I was there, I was holding them tears in my eyes until their last breath and these people are saying goodbye to mom through a window. My buddies daughter having to waive to her little sister through a window, we are taking the moments out of life and watching it happen right before our eyes. Moments that make life what it is, pulled out from under us and we continue to fight about Trump or Biden or you are wrong and you are stupid blah blah. Acting like the freshman c-team I used to help coach with your bitching like little kids. This America, is our darkest moment, we can own it and come out of it. But if we continue to let it swallow us up whole……..

September Is Calling

Not like a long lost friend, by like your ex who hates you the most. There it is all out in the open, for everyone to see what you did! Some of it you didn’t do, but who would believe you now? Every scar, every little thing down to every last detail. All you did, all those you hurt, standing there looking at you like the firing squad. Not asking what are you going to do about it, but telling you the twenty years of nothing has defeated you. Telling you a week out from 43 this is the end of the road. This is who you are and who you will be and you just have to accept it and keep living your life this way! No it will get better, no it’s okay or we will figure it out! Another 365 days, September is calling, except it’s different this time. No fake promises about what I’m going to do. No trying to convince myself that I can do better and this is just a storm. Like the post I wrote directly before this, one too many times I said it in the moment. But when the moment was over I failed to act on it. Failing to act on it has lead to September calling, and I still can’t answer, because I still have no answers……

It’s About What You Do After You Say!

Those words you said, those things you were going to do and the changes you were going to make. All there, all ready to happen in the moment and then the moment passes. And it’s you against you, dark places and bad things telling you that you can’t start to creep in. That moment when all you did comes flooding back and gets in the way of what you can do. Can and can’t are two of the most powerful words in the English language. We let our minds and what we could do, be defeated by what comes flooding back and what we did. Here’s an idea, you did it, can you do anything about it? Nope, you made that choice then, Michael J and the Delorean aren’t around the corner for a do over. It doesn’t work like that, so many people gone now that I wanted to make shit right with. Don’t look back on it two weeks out from 43 and go wtf like I have. Don’t be the person you could be and said you could be in the moment. Be that fucking person each and every day your feet hit the ground. We can all be better, we can all be worse and we can sure all stay the same. But what happens when the moment passes and we stay the same……

To All The Ones!

Who have been told they aren’t good enough. Who have long been wrote off, who never should of came back. Who let the story write them, instead of them writing the story. The ones who made mistakes, the ones like me who wasted twenty years! It isn’t over, only one person gets a say in when it’s over. So what say you? Because in the end, all those doubters, all those people who acted like and thought they were better than you. They should of been worried about their backyard not yours. While you made a mess of your backyard, it was your backyard to mess up. Maybe it isn’t pretty, most likely like me, you wish you would of gone about it different, but what’s different now? If you ask George Floyd, oh wait you can’t. It takes one moment in time to spark change, I don’t hate cops, anybody can commit murder, but let’s get real for a second. He forged some shit, yes he should of went to jail, but a death sentence! For all of you like me looking for a comeback who took themselves so far down they never thought it was possible! You still have air to breathe, when it’s all said and done, you and me will be the same dust in the wind. Wether you believe in God or not like I, don’t you think it’s time we changed. Going about our lives the way we do and getting away with things because we can! And now because we have lives that way so long, I’m not sure we can fix it anymore. We can’t fix are bias, we can’t fix the way things are and we just can’t, because it will happen again! Guess people like you and me can’t, so why bother! Or maybe, just maybe can’t use an excuse and that’s what you are telling yourself, maybe we WON’T. Won’t is an even more dangerous word than can’t. What you won’t do today will catch up with you tomorrow. Another virus will come, next time his name won’t be George Floyd and next time will you be able to make it okay because of what you can’t do! Or are we finally willing to do what we won’t do, make a change, say enough is enough, because the way it is, just isn’t sustainable! And remember all those people talking about you and saying you CAN’T, most of the time the shit they’re doing is worse than yours! So remember that……

This Is How You Are Going To Let It End?

Broken halos that used to shine, thanks Chris Stapleton! When I was six years old, thanks for that Ed Sheeran! This lockdown has made me realize more, the time wasted I’ll never get back, and the things I could of done! And now, what’s being done is me. Fighting at 42, to still figure it out, before it figures me out. Propped up on shit, because I made the choices to let my life turn to shit. Some people figure it out, some people get figured out. Twenty years wasted, things I want to make right to people who aren’t here any longer. Things I want to make right before certain people go. And hell, here I sit in the same hole. Duh and continued to be dug by the same mother fucker looking back at me in the mirror letting me down. Down to the point I almost thought for a second that this was it. For a second, o let this shit take me so far down, I thought I’d never come back. For a second, I let it win. I let it convince me that I couldn’t, I let it tell me that I wasn’t good enough. And I believed it, because I forgot who I was. The most dangerous thing in the world, is a mother fucker who has forgot who he was and found himself again. I was a piece of shit, I chose not to be what I could of been, a lot of you have made the same choices. Choices change, life changes and she is three and looks up to me. They are 14-18 and they call me coach and they look up to me and hell, at this point I can’t even look at myself in the mirror anymore! But that’s who i chose to be, not who I am, today you and I have a choice. Let what we did and who we were define us. Or let what’s left and what we could do define us, the choice is ours. Is this how you are going to let it end?

It’s In Our Hands!

Crawling in our skin, the addictions we just can’t heal. Alcohol, drugs, sex, some have it worse. Jefferey snd his buddies with underage girls, I can go on and on. The addiction we have to oil, the addiction we have to trade, the addiction we have to stupidity. And the not enough medical supplies to go around to deal with it. I’ve felt this way before, so insecure to the fact that you and I can’t do anything about it. There is no cure, there is only a grim prognosis if you are in the wrong group. Like a 43 year old mother fucker that had ahead collapsed lungs, who has a 92 year old grandmother and 67 year old diabetic mother! But laugh it up like it is just the flu and continue just washing your hands and going on like sheep! We the sheeple is the United States of America! We the sheeple owe it to ourselves, owe it to our kids, we have to figure it out, we have to be better. We have to get off the dating websites when we aren’t single. We have to stop lying, we have to stop making things that aren’t okay, okay and then looking the other way. This, what is happening right now, we the people created this and we the people are the only ones who can stop it and Carol Baskin!!!!!!

Going Baaaaaad!

And we ain’t fucking talking about sheep yo! We talking about lives and lies. Real numbers coming out and real lies coming out and still more questions than answers! Mother fuckers believing numbers coming out of China! Right, and Simba didn’t eat Carole Baskin’s husband either. Ain’t nobody got time for that shit, get the fuck out of her. Next a mother fucker is gonna tell me that Tom Brady signed with the fucking Bucs! While Tommy is renting Derek Jeter’s 30 million dollar estate, real mother fuckers got real problems. The lives it has yet to take will be immense and the effects on the United States of America will last potentially decades. Some won’t recover, some were barely surviving and the rest of you fools are at home worried about a fucking Tiger king and some whacked out bitch instead of what is really going the fuck on! We are getting closer to falling off the life’s little edge! It isn’t guaranteed and it is a privilege that some of you stupid mother fuckers are taking for granted! Like the mother fucker in the White House that I voted for, who called it the flu for far too long. And hey, wash your hands and that will solve the problem! Get the fuck out of here with your Carole Baskin didn’t kill her husband believing ass! Yeah, good hygiene is important and necessary, but washing your hands isn’t going to stop some shit that is already in the air stupid……

We The People! I Don’t Know Isn’t Good Enough Carole Baskin!

My moms a 67 year old diabetic and my grandma is 92! I’m a 42 year old who had collapsed lungs, so while you’re busy with your Tiger King. The world, kind of might need you over here. Fuck Carole Baksin, but I don’t know in the year 2020 isn’t good enough! it’s isn’t good enough for you or me, this isn’t supposed to happen. Did we let this happen? We suck as a fucking world, Carole Baskin Sucks and let’s be honest we know who ate your husband! But that’s a moot point, no body and nobody cares, can’t prove it and she shall walk! But did what we as a world have let go on finally come back and bite us in the ass? We’re we not paying attention years ago when tsunamis like we have never seen struck. She nuclear waste was spilling into the sea from Japan. Hell, a little more recent when all of Australia and damn near all of the Amazon was on fire. Were we too busy covering for Jefferey and Harvey? Did we turn a blind eye to everything and let this all just go on which has led us here? You don’t have to believe in God like I do to understand this for sure. Man has free will, whether you believe God gave it to him or not. And what man has been doing with that free will lately…… I’ll let you think about that one for a minute Carole Baskin! Or maybe choke on it for a minute like your tiger did……

M

In Case You Were Wondering!

A lot of you seem to keep asking the question. Why is this happening to us? or why is God letting this happen? It’s kind of boils down to that he gave man free will point. You don’t have to believe in God like I, but a word to the wise. No matter what you believe in, this is happening for a reason. We are trafficking children, and protecting the mother fuckers who are doing it. We are sexually assaulting men and mainly women in are Colleges and Universities and yep you guessed it, played cover up there too! We are beating up Asian people in America and around the world who had nothing to do with starting this. Wether it was an animal or it was created by the Chinese government, blaming Chinese people and beating them is insane. Most would say their government cares about them as much as it cares about the rest of the world, which is very little. We are losing a drug and homeless epidemic by the day, we are showing indifference and be careful when that word comes into your life. That word will let you think you are better than your fellow man. It would let you judge, it will lead you to giving a fuck only about yourself. Always put yourself number 1, if you won’t, who will. But number 1, not a ducking asshole! We have too many kids who DK t have enough to eat. We have continents like Africa that are getting rave he’s by disease we have drugs to treat! Yeah, you wonder why this is happening, it all comes down to WE! And now, I ask you this. What are we going to do about it? Figure it out, or check your DM’s on Instagram from the three different chicks you are trying to bang? While your wife sits at home with the kids…..