Victim Is Easy, Victor Is Hard!

Hate, wars and killing each other are the things humans continue to get right! I’m Christian, I wasn’t raised to be super accepting of gay people because of it, but you know what. I could give two shit’s less about who sleeps with who. If its  so wrong, the God I believe in will deal with it, if it’s not, see you in Heaven. Too many people trying to play God, people like you and me who think their perfect. I learned long ago that perfection wasn’t in my future. That I was no better than the next guy, that I had to want it more to get it. Victim is easy, our newly elected President plays the role well. As did the Lady who ran against him, probably why she lost. Everybody has a sad story, everybody has screwed up, but victor is hard. Admitting you messed up and doing what it takes to make it right is the hardest thing in the world! It’s easy to point a finger, to say someone should have done this, or I did my part, it’s harder to say I failed. It’s realizing failure is not the end, but the beginning. The best things can come out of your failure, or they can bury you. Funniest thing in the world is what we do to other people, but when it’s done, oh hell no and full on victim mode. Full on how could they, and the best of all, WHY! Why is easy, that do unto others thing they talk about, 100% true. Karma I have come to find out is a real live thing, and I promise you, it will rear it’s head at the worst possible time. A time when you have run out of excuses and people to blame and fingers to point. A time where it’s all on the line and you have either done the work, or get done in by the la k of work. Victor or victim? Decisions, decisions…….